I’ve discovered the hard truth about my singularity and my choice to do so. Being in a relationship stops my life. I forget about my goals, responsibilities, and my thoughts are not straightforward. This is why I avoid relationships all together! I am a self-made woman and I cannot allow others to cloud my judgment and steal me from future. Although I say “allow others”, I really need to say that to myself, I cannot allow others to be so important that they deeply impact my life to the point of solidarity. That is not fair to those who enjoy my company. Relationship with others has always been a struggle for me. I do not always have boundaries and that is where I get in trouble. I let people in too far and too fast. I whisk them away with my childish fantasy of love and romanticism.
So my focus for now, will be to remain single, and continue self-discovery and healing my old wounds, so that I may be ready and healthy to have a relationship with whoever they may be.
It will take a lifetime of searching for both of us. But I know my path is right and along this path many friends will come and many lovers I may meet.
I am confident in where I am and where I am going